16 Men Share Their Biggest Relationship Red Flags

“If you can’t have a civilized argument with them. If small differences at the start of the relationship already turn into screaming, shouting, insulting etc. just think about how those important discussions later in the relationship will go…”

-PhobosDeimosX

“Seeing how they speak to other people, especially when they aren’t around, if they s@#t talk their friends when they aren’t around why would you think they wouldn’t do that to you as well.”

-AL_drew

“Not being able to apologize. Everybody makes mistakes, doesn’t matter. Own up to it and I respect you even more. Seek excuses? Bye!”

-Attygalle

“Complaining about everything.”

-Paranoides

“I broke off with a girl on our 3rd date because she was mad I wasn’t jealous. So I guess jealousy?”

-FonikiPana

“Any form of, “if you can’t handle me when I’m a sleeze bag, piece of s@#t, then you don’t deserve me when I’m a lesser sleeze, piece of s@#t””

-Drunk_Histories

“They spend 90% of their free time sat on their phone but get annoyed when you play a few hours of PlayStation to relax.”

-Artichoke19

“If they’re full of themselves , can’t have someone who can’t joke and make fun of themselves and bases life on how many likes they get on social media.”

-Montevallo1

“Lying, saying stuff about you behind your back, being mean to people for no reason, being fake.”

-sproolsy5

“Doesn’t let you have time to yourself/ their entire life revolves around you to the point that they suffocate you.”

-jalo12

“Alking about exes too much to the line of comparing you two. Big no no for me.”

-Ilumin159

“Huge red flag when they ask you for every little detail when you’ve been somewhere without them i.e out with friends or something, and basically accusing you of cheating then getting overly defensive and secretive (showing really strong cheater signs) themselves.”

-gamingninja12

“No “test” behaviour. Be straightforward or I’ll assume you’re likely to instigate dumbs@#t drama. Honesty for honesty.”

-Thatguyinthebottle

“Toxic behavior overall. Trying to pressure me into something I don’t want to do. And I hold honesty to a pretty high regard so any form of manipulation or toxic passive aggressiveness is over the line for me.”

-DontPlayAuthentic

“If they are terrible with finances.”

-notwithagoat

“The whole mindset of “I’m the god’s gift to Earth, I don’t have to bring anything to the table, everyone wants me, I got options so I’m just going to treat you like an option and you better be happy about it or I’m going to label you insecure and tell all your friends and family.”

-FictionDragon